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Ja-lene Clark

Ja-lene Clark

I am a wife, mom, and nana living in the beautiful state of Oklahoma. On my website, I offer my musings on spirituality, creativity, writing, family, and food.

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Sunflowers

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We often travel to Texas to spend weekends with my parents in Bonham, Texas.

One beautiful autumn day, My mom couldn’t wait to take us to a graveyard about eight miles outside of Bonham. None of our family members were buried in this graveyard; Mom’s motivations were not about grief. Once we arrived and saw the huge sunflower field lining the drive of a small graveyard, I understood Mom’s excitement.

What a brilliant idea.

Have you ever seen a graveyard watched over by sunflowers?

How could one focus on grief when struck by the tremendous number of these beautiful, majestic flowers? My grandchildren did not even notice the headstones; they went straight to the flowers instead.

When my grandchildren ventured out into the field, I snapped these priceless photos of them. To me, their gentle facial expressions are visual evidence of children’s pure, divine, joyful nature!

I feel a bond with sunflowers.

I know these flowers offer more than beauty.

My first memories of sunflowers came from my childhood when I romped in my grandfather’s massive gardens, picking and eating berries with my cousin, Melissa. In one of his gardens, my grandfather also grew giant sunflowers. So beautiful and so much larger than me!

Later in life, I learned these flowers offer more than beauty. These flowers are teachers. All of creation can teach us something valuable if we are willing to explore symbolic insights.

Sunflower Symbolism

Face the Light

A woman told me that she believes sunflowers are Mary Magdalene’s secret symbol.* Because, like the sunflower, Mary’s face always followed the light—the Son. The sunflower’s face always points toward the sun; it bends yet is firmly planted in the earth, willfully moving to face the source of light.

*I am not sure if what the woman shared with me about Mary Magdalene is accurate. I included her statement because it illustrates the point.

Beauty Can Transmute Toxins

On a practical note, scientists believe that the sunflower transmutes toxic waste. After Hurricane Katrina in New Orleans, Project Sprout planted sunflowers to remediate the soil. Can you imagine the amount of waste that floated onto land in the debris after Katrina? Wow, the practical, long-term solution was to plant sunflowers. It seems that not only are sunflowers beautiful, with delicious nutty seeds, they literally heal the earth. This flower removes environmental toxins to make soil healthy again.

This intentional planting of sunflowers after disasters is not a new idea. Before Katrina, sunflowers were planted after the nuclear disaster at Chernobyl and in Japan after the earthquake and tsunami at Fukushima.

At the graveyard next to the two-lane highway in rural Texas, a place designed for the living to remember what they have lost, instead of sorrow, I can marvel at what I have found. That field of sunflowers reminded me of my childhood, carelessly picking berries, and of the great insight that beautiful flower has the power to transmute toxins, especially when facing the light.

When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” —John 8:12 NIV
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Just Love

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When was the term unconditional love coined? Why has that idea of “unconditional” become so widespread that the expected, preferred, and higher way to love is to love but do it unconditionally?

The mind does tricky things with words that begin with “un.” Sometimes, our brain does not even see the “un.” We usually first see the word within words that begin with the prefix “un” because the opposition of the idea is being expressed. In English, adding the prefix “un” means that we seek to express the opposite; however, “un” usually implies that something is lacking.

Consider these words:

  • Unclean (lacks cleanliness)
  • Unhealthy (lacks health)
  • Untrue (lacks truth)
  • Unworthy (lacks worth)
  • Unconditionally (lacks conditions) 

So, to love unconditionally is a condition lacking love. The mind, therefore, strives to blend the idea of the oppositional word, in contrast, to make some sense of what is being said. If there are no conditions to our love for others, then there is no “unconditional” love because the conditions never existed.

It means I should love everyone no matter what they do. If a family member takes advantage of me and is suffering from mental illness or substance abuse, then I should unconditionally love them and invite them into my home and turn my back when they take advantage of me, right? I am really confused…don’t some professional therapists label this behavior as codependent love? Whoops! I’m not supposed to be codependent, but I am supposed to be unconditionally loving, right? Where is the precise line between unconditional and codependent love?

This is pretty confusing and creates all sorts of inner conflict, true? I am wondering if we even need unconditional love.

Here’s the point. Why do we need to modify the word love to make it bigger?—I believe love is big enough just as it is. The Beatles didn’t sing “All You Need is Unconditional Love.” The 60s anthem was not “What the World Needs Now is Unconditional Love.” Jesus didn’t say unconditionally love one another…he said,

“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another.” (John 13:34 King James Version)

Jesus was saying to love one another as God loves us.

Actually, you might be interested to learn that the term “unconditional” is never used in the Bible.

After contemplating this, I have decided to take the term “unconditional love” out of my vocabulary. Instead, I will simply just use and practice love—without any modification that lessens that precious “L” word.

I love you!

Ja-lene

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Ja-lene Clark’s book shines a light on the visionary writer’s journey—from the initial idea to publication. The Journey of the Visionary Writer: The Five Phases of Experiential Writing, is filled with brilliant observations, eloquent introspections and profound insights to assist visionaries as they navigate the spiritual and emotional complexities of experiential writing. Clark’s enthusiastic dedication to assisting others on their journeys is evident throughout the pages of her book. By sharing her deeply personal stories alongside historical examples, she offers a fresh, enlightening perspective on experiential writing to inspire readers to boldly share their own wisdom. Be prepared! This is not a typical how-to-write book; it is remarkably advanced, deeply healing and expansive.

Take the leap! Dare to open your heart and share your wisdom! Start by purchasing a copy of The Journey of the Visionary Writer.
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